Maunya

Ngeliat video kawinan, gw jadi nyesel, ga ngucapin kata2 sendiri, yg bakal diliat anak gw ntar betapa romantis nyokapnya..

Yah gini ya, kawinan itu.. Svck.. Lu gabisa ngapa2in, mesti nyerah egonya.. Bakal banyak bgt hal yg gak lu pesen, lu atur, tiba2 sak jrengeng..
Pelaminan norak yg dateng..
Tiba2, elu yg dah dandan cantik dgn baju dan makeup artis pilihan lu sendiri, ditempatkan di latar kandang ayam..
Hati lu mesti dipasrahin abis..
Kalo ga nerima, hasil potonya dan acara bakal terrible abis..
Secara, elu as bride adalah pusat acara panjang itu.

Waktu itu faktor penguat gw adalah gw dah megang satu potograper keren, temen gw sendiri, untuk mempoto gw di baju keren dgn berat susut 7kilo, di gedung keren. Cuma itu penguat gw. Jadi hal lain seperti pelaminan rumah kampungen.. Gw ga ngelirik dah..
Tp ternyata gw baru sadar liat poto dan pideo potograper nyokap yg standar sop banget.
Kampungens brooo.. Kayak kawinan anak pak kades..

Baju krem gw jadi putih polos kayak mukena. Tanpa gradasi apapun.
Dan pelaminan noraknya mempertegas kekampungan itu. Oranye, ungu, ijo disatuin. Ada merah dan goldnya.. Olalaaa.. Big nono buat gw...
Dan padahal gw dah pesen gebyok jati coklat tua polos, dan bunga putih. Titik. Simple dan elegan. Itu pesen gw. Dan ibu itu cuma bilang, oh iya iya, beres..
Ahhh welll
Rebesss
Harusnya gw pilih sendiri semuanyaaaa

Nah, ada hal menyebalkan lagi.
-gw cium tangan laki gw. Ini suck. Gw bersumpah dari dulu kalo gw ga akan cium tangan laki gw. Penghinaan buat gw..
Tp nyokapnya nyuap gw.. Setiap kali ketemu dia ciummm mulu tangan gw. Dan laki gw juga.
Gw jadi gaenak..
Dan akhirnya gw ciumlah tu tangan laki gw yg males potong kuku. Huh..
Tapi, demi.. Demi kelancaran acara dan semua senang dan di poto gw keliatan cantik..

-disuruh ngomong 'akang, saya akan mengikuti akang';' akang, ucapkan takbul zakiya samting..' Yang eww I wuddd neverr say thosee!!
Tapi, demiiiiiii.. T. Gw dah pasrah dah mau diapain, yg penting sorenya gw poto cuantik..

-gw didikte ngikutin kata2 ustad itu. Word by word.. Ewww yg kata2nya najong berat dah..
Kalo gw tau bakal di pideoin, gw pasti langsung nyela.
Dan bilang:

" sayangku, aku, adalah seorang pemimpi. Itu kekuatanku. Tapi seringkali aku tak tau bagaimana mewujudkannya.

Bertemu kamu, aku tau, kamu bisa buat aku bisa.

Sayangku, kamu bukan laki yang datang dari mimpi, tapi kau adalah laki bumi, yang datang untuk mewujudkan mimpi.."
Aku cinta kau..

Rencananya sih

Rencana, mau hanimun nih januari. Secara doi cisa cuti baru ntar.

1. CGK-HKT. 21jan. X2. 1.040.000
2.HKT-KUL 23janx2. 900.000
3. KUL-REP 24janx2. 600.000
4. SGN-CGK 30janx2. 2.000.000
-----------------+
Rup 4.540.000
Nah itu baru estimasi tiket pesawatnya aja..
Kalo gw sih, sbnernya bisa2 aja brangkat sinting gak persiapan, nginep dimanapun. Laki gw apalagi.
Tapi laki gw tuh, kayaknya gamau bgt gw luka sedikitpun.. Gw yakin tar bakal lbh susah jalan ma doi..

Yooiiiii ayooo semangat nih..

wed count

okay. let's count.

1. Wedding dress.

a.White dress: tanabang, 6m brocade x12 = 72K

satin,4mx10 = 40K

Gave it to designer : 4jt

total : 4. 112. 000 rp.

b. Red dress: tanabang,3m red brocadex50 = 150K

satin: 3mx10 = 30K

boutique lynn's bandung = 500K

bolero of a designer+accessories= 1000K

total : 1.680.000 rp

c. Make up plus accessories (3 times). morning akad, afternoon photoshoot, and nite party.

total : 3.000.000 rp

d. Shoes. hadthem forlong, bcos im a shoeholic.

Zara : 700K Ninewest red : 459K

total: 1.159.000 rp

2. The groom suites

a. Morning akad. white.

designer : total: 4.000.000rp

b. Nite Party suit. Carthago.

blazer = 1.200K

pants = 360K

shirt = 299K

red tie = 100K

total: 1.959.000 rp

3. Photographer.. Santirta and mas Sulis. price? well it's a secret. but that talented photographer is a friend of mine. so,it was a friendly price he gave us.

4. Ferry band, recommended by a good friend. Awesome, and affordable, nice people and soooooooo stunning!! love them. Price? also a secret. cant tell you.

5. the Concordia resto.

they only charged for the food. not the venue.. so, itwas quite affordable luxury they offer.

this is from my side.

i dont include what our both parents had spent for the wedding.

the most expensive cost is to pay for their big families.

if not,then,wonderful wedding is actually affordable. if you've got a job and can pay.

has tied the knot

we finally tied the knot.

ah, those days.. were so hectic.

and i finally found out that the legend about bride frantic before wed-day is true. i had it myself.

i ran away from home. i asked my self wether i want the marriage or not. i wondered if my choice of him was wrong. the feeling that i wanna go out and run,leaving the oath table.

but yet, thank god i'm a snob. pride is what i believe is important.

i already invited a lot of people.

strictdiet

hard n strict diet for a month,only eating papaya, semangka at breakfast and dinner. having kailan garlic or boiled bayam or broccoli for lunch. thank god it worked. i reduce my weight, 7kilo.hahah.. i was fat and i didnt realize it until i started dieting that month.

and i actually still wanna lose it another 6. don't ask the number.

thedress

that dress was my dreammmm dress. perfect. it could be better,but its gorgeous ooredi. i didn't want kebaya or other common wed dress.

my wed vision was: great classic simple photo. showing what we both are.

i choose for the designer,plus makeup, show her my design, and she turned it into owwwww dresss.

for this dress, i did strictdiet.

the photographer

what i want for the wedding is actually the greatphotos. i want to be extremely beautiful in the photo. bcos after wed, i might get knockedup sooner..

so, i got myself a gorgeous dress, and got me strictdiet, and voila.

the date

3x7 = 21

2+1=3

3x2 +1 =7

3.7.2010

well here we go

btw, i did ranaway, a day before wedding day.

my mom cried. my dad got pissed off.

my guy found out, and broke the pingitan promise i asked him.

then,i knew.

the minute i saw him.

i want to be with him.

'i care only for you. not anything else. i want to be your wife.'

he said,'we will be good.' and he kissed me.

then, he dropped me home, to get my beauty wed sleep.

and we tied the knot the next day.

i am glad that i am married to a man that i love. who loved me big.

i'm following what my heart is asking..